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Lessons in High Performance from my first three weeks as a Dad

We live in uncertain times - now more than ever. A great deal of life we cannot control. But we can control our Mindset. How we think is how we view our world. With a High Performance Mindset, we can overcome bigger challenges. We can achieve greater things.

These are some of the Principles of the High Performance Mindset that are being trained as I navigate the wonderful world of Fatherhood.

What's your enough?

We all want more time, more money, more stuff. But how much more? When will we have enough to be content?

My (painful) lesson in energy management

We push ourselves to the maximum day in, day out, wasting energy and burning ourselves out. We pay lip service to planning out a more intelligent, sustainable approach but when our backs are agains the wall and deadlines loom, we lose our heads and just make a mad dash for it.

“There’s no time for planning,” we think, “let’s just get on with it”.

But what would happen if we took a more strategic, longer term approach, and applied our energy more efficiently?

'Tactically ignoring' yourself

Much is said and written about the virtues of ‘believing in yourself’, ‘backing yourself’ and ‘ignoring the nay-sayers’. This advice is applied to business situations, to personal relationships, and pursuing your dreams and goals. There is no denying the importance of self-belief. After all, if we don’t take ourselves seriously, we can’t expect anyone else to. But should we always listen to ourselves? Are the voices in our head always right? In my opinion, to make real change in our lives, we should sometimes ‘tactically ignore’ the things we tell ourselves to do; forgoing what seems like the best choice right now, for what we truly want long term.